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Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts

The media goes wild when politicians and celebrities being caught “cheating” on their spouses are exposed in public. Most of these types of stories focus on the person doing the “cheating”, not the partner who is left behind. After the media spotlight cools down, what happens to these partners? How do they make the decision to stay or go? Is there really any hope for the future of the relationship? How do they survive the shame and move forward?Mending A Shattered Heart provides real hope, promise and inspiration to readers who are struggling.

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Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal

Carol Juergenen Sheets and Allan J. Katz have created a workbook/roadmap for rebuilding relationships damaged by sexual addiction and other forms of infidelity. With a focus on empathy – understanding what the betrayed partner is feeling; the exercises in this guidebook will help sex addicts rebuild lost trust and intimacy. This is a recipe for healing a broken relationship.

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Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal

Drawing from her experience both as a marriage and family therapist and a woman who personally experienced the devastation of sexual betrayal, Dr. Sheri Keffer walks women impacted by betrayal through the pain and toward recovery. She explains how the trauma of betrayal affects our minds, bodies, spirits, and sexuality. She offers practical tools for dealing with emotional triggers and helps women understand the realities of sexual addiction. And she shows women how to practice self-care, develop healthy boundaries, protect themselves from abuse or manipulation, and find freedom from the burden of shame and guilt.

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Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

Sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behavior often steal a person's ability to achieve emotional or sexual intimacy. Both addicts and their partners may suffer in isolation, ashamed and afraid, not knowing where to turn for help. Your Sexually Addicted Spouse shatters that stigma and shame and provides understanding and empathy for the addict and his or her spouse. Barbara Steffens' groundbreaking research was the first to show that partners are not codependents but post-traumatic stress victims, while Marsha Means' personal experience provides insights, strategies, and critical steps to recognize, deal with, and heal partners of sexually addicted relationships.

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From Betrayal Trauma to Healing & Joy: A Workbook for Partners of Sex Addicts

Using a trauma-model approach, From Betrayal Trauma to Healing & Joy: A Workbook for Partners of Sex Addicts, provides a healing pathway women can follow, either individually or in a support group. Beginning with the raw pain partners of sex addicts experience, this well-researched, soul-searching guide sensitively uses a forward-moving process, enabling women to grieve, grow, and heal. With a balance of educational content and penetrating questions, women review what has happened in their relationship and process it as they journal their answers to the workbook's self-reflective questions.

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Unleashing Your Power: Moving Through the Trauma of Partner Betrayal

“GAME. CHANGER. Deeply respectful and full of practical exercises and insights that help heartbroken women find their way back to themselves after the trauma of sexual betrayal. If you are a betrayed partner THIS is the workbook you have been waiting for.” - LAURIE HALL, RScP, CPC, PSAPAuthor of An Affair of the Mind. Partner Betrayal Specialist and President of the Board of Directors, The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists.“Carol Juergensen Sheets and Christine Turo-Shields have created a much-needed workbook to help betrayed partners move through the complex trauma of betrayal to creating their lives anew.

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Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts

A go-to guide on how to confront, heal from, and ultimately thrive after the devastation of betrayal by a partner's compulsive sexual or other addictive behavior. This is the first guide specifically for partners affected by addictive behavior that addresses, in detail, how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for healing and growth.

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